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(03-26-2013, 02:46 PM)debbie Wrote: [ -> ]I think I should start boxing again so that I can puch the shit out of something in a safe and controlled way before I loose it completely.

You just became a more interesting person. And also a little scarier.

I'm a total pushover as well, but fortunately I usually seem to avoid situations where people feel the need to push me around. The "Please, please, please, please, please, please, please......" persistence actually works on me though. If someone wants something enough, and they keep asking, I'll end up doing it. Maybe this works on other people besides me, but I'm not an annoying little kid (unlike some people in my life), so I'll never ask for anything more than twice, and usually not more than once.

My job doesn't really involve anything that can get dumped on me (usually I prefer to do things myself because all the younger guards do a shitty job), and at school most people don't know me very well. I've been told on multiple occasions that people think I hate them just because of the look I wear on my face whenever I see them, except thats just how I always look. So being the tall, silent, angry looking dude seems to keep people from asking me for shit.
Ouch. Sorry to hear that Debs. Need to elaborate on it? :\
(03-26-2013, 04:07 PM)JoelCarli Wrote: [ -> ]Ouch. Sorry to hear that Debs. Need to elaborate on it? :\

My boss was dumping his work on me and then taking all the credit and whenever he messes things up because he can't manage for shit, I have to fix it. Then, my students are giving me shit straight to my face, we had a death in the family and I was just generally feeling anxious yesterday.

(03-26-2013, 04:02 PM)Danjo Wrote: [ -> ]
(03-26-2013, 02:46 PM)debbie Wrote: [ -> ]I think I should start boxing again so that I can puch the shit out of something in a safe and controlled way before I loose it completely.

You just became a more interesting person. And also a little scarier.

I was a really angry kid, especially in high school. But the dangerous kind - angry on the inside not on the outside. So two of my sisters friends said that I should box to release the anger and get it out of my system. So they tought me the basics and kinda provoked me till I started punching cause I didn't want to hurt anyone one of them. We were in the house and wearing sock so they would keep stepping on my feet and on my socks to keep me in one position and provoke me. They were a lot faster than me and could read me like a book, but unfortunately for him I later got in a shot and nearly broke his nose. My friend had a bag at his house so I would go there every once in a while and practice there. It was not like I did it as a sport, more as a way to vent. I would definitely recommend it to anyone that wants to vent out some anger. Either that or go scream at something were no one can hear you. Works like a charm. Wink
(03-27-2013, 09:07 AM)debbie Wrote: [ -> ]My boss was dumping his work on me and then taking all the credit and whenever he messes things up because he can't manage for shit, I have to fix it. Then, my students are giving me shit straight to my face, we had a death in the family and I was just generally feeling anxious yesterday.
My dad's professor when he went to university a couple years back would ask my dad to do some essays, and then right his own name on them, taking part of the credit, not actually having done any of the work. I have an idea of how that's like.

As for students, they're teenagers (I'm assuming) and teenagers are dumb. So there's that Tongue

For the death in your family, I won't ask because I'm sure you want it to remain private but you have my sympathies. I know it doesn't sound like much but it's the least I can do (seriously, why do we say the 'least'? Shouldn't it be the 'most'?).

Anxiety I've experienced first-hand, and I agree, it's not fun at all. I've been anxious lately as well.

(03-27-2013, 09:07 AM)debbie Wrote: [ -> ]*boxing stuff*
TFW you can neither punch stuff or scream because of the situations you are in at most times of the day Sad
(03-27-2013, 01:08 PM)JoelCarli Wrote: [ -> ]
(03-27-2013, 09:07 AM)debbie Wrote: [ -> ]My boss was dumping his work on me and then taking all the credit and whenever he messes things up because he can't manage for shit, I have to fix it. Then, my students are giving me shit straight to my face, we had a death in the family and I was just generally feeling anxious yesterday.
My dad's professor when he went to university a couple years back would ask my dad to do some essays, and then right his own name on them, taking part of the credit, not actually having done any of the work. I have an idea of how that's like.

As for students, they're teenagers (I'm assuming) and teenagers are dumb. So there's that Tongue

For the death in your family, I won't ask because I'm sure you want it to remain private but you have my sympathies. I know it doesn't sound like much but it's the least I can do (seriously, why do we say the 'least'? Shouldn't it be the 'most'?).

Anxiety I've experienced first-hand, and I agree, it's not fun at all. I've been anxious lately as well.

(03-27-2013, 09:07 AM)debbie Wrote: [ -> ]*boxing stuff*
TFW you can neither punch stuff or scream because of the situations you are in at most times of the day Sad

No my students are 20 somethings... I teach at Uni level, 2nd year and up. My youngenst student is 19, some of them are a few younger than me or my age. I'm a 4 years older than the majority of my 3rd year class...
Aww, I was gonna say, if you did boxing as a sport you'd probably be ridiculously hot, because every boxer I know is in super good shape. Still cool though. And is it just the South American craziness that causes you to get angry? haha. I don't get angry about things very often, lately I've just been having more anxiety or whatever.

Just go to the gym at your school and do your boxing there, and be super angry and aggressive about it. Chances are someone will see you, and then maybe you'll earn a reputation as a crazy boxer lady and everyone will think you're hot.... er wait, no, I meant scary. Everyone will think you're scary and won't want you to use them as a punching bag. Then they won't give you shit.

As for your boss, who I'm assuming is a professor, actually use him as a punching bag. I'm sure he'll learn not to be such a dick.
I want to get me a punch bag, mainly because I want to practice my punching, and it's good exercise. I haven't anywhere to put one though. ;_;


Anyway, I actually came here to be on topic (A first, I know). Recently, I've been feeling down. Well, I say recently, it's actually been going on a long time - it's off and on, but it's pretty frequent, and nothing in particular causes it. Today's just been particularly shitty for no reason. It's probably my hormones or my brain or some shit like that, but it's nice to vent. Confusedhrug:
Sorry you feel down Maps.

I've actually been super lonely lately. The fact that I pretty much only talk to my room mate and my physics study group doesn't help. It also doesn't help that the only people who ever text me are my sister and my mom.
(03-27-2013, 02:37 PM)Danjo Wrote: [ -> ]Aww, I was gonna say, if you did boxing as a sport you'd probably be ridiculously hot, because every boxer I know is in super good shape.
Implying she isn't? :p

that's a trick question, you don't call a lady "hot". you call her "breathtaking" or "gorgeous" or "Venusian". this disclaimer brought to you by White Knight Industries

(03-27-2013, 02:37 PM)Danjo Wrote: [ -> ]As for your boss, who I'm assuming is a professor, actually use him as a punching bag. I'm sure he'll learn not to be such a dick.
If it's a guy, he won't be allowed to hit her. It's the perfect plan!

(03-27-2013, 02:23 PM)debbie Wrote: [ -> ]No my students are 20 somethings... I teach at Uni level, 2nd year and up. My youngenst student is 19, some of them are a few younger than me or my age. I'm a 4 years older than the majority of my 3rd year class...
To me, early 20's is still, for the most part, a teenage mentality. Unless I'm wrong Confusedhrug:

(03-27-2013, 02:49 PM)Mr Maps Wrote: [ -> ]Anyway, I actually came here to be on topic (A first, I know). Recently, I've been feeling down. Well, I say recently, it's actually been going on a long time - it's off and on, but it's pretty frequent, and nothing in particular causes it. Today's just been particularly shitty for no reason. It's probably my hormones or my brain or some shit like that, but it's nice to vent. Confusedhrug:
You're always welcome to open up in this thread. It could be hormones, could be mental. You might want to consider seeing a therapist just to be sure nothing's wrong with you.
Oh, it's not that bad. I've thought of it, but frankly, it's not bad enough for me to warrant a therapist.
Thanks anyway guys, it's just nice to vent every now and then. :3