(02-14-2013, 08:32 PM)Danjo Wrote: I agree so much. From the relationships I've been in I feel like anything else just gets in the way. You shouldn't have to give up your entire life for your relationship, but with certain people you just get into that mindset. "Should I get a job or hang out with my girlfriend?" "I guess I'll hang out with my girlfriend."I always thought it was really silly to consider your significant other the person you love and trust the most when they are the person (you love) that is most likely to leave you. How many people do you know succeeded in getting with their first ever crush and stuck with them for their whole life? It doesn't happen. Romantic love very often fades whereas platonic doesn't as easily. It's kind of depressing, really. With platonic relationships, you can have as many as you want and they don't get jealous if you make other friends and what not.
Wow. I've just made myself sad.
(02-14-2013, 08:32 PM)Danjo Wrote: I just need to find a woman who I can be with without it getting in the way of things. Really it would be ideal if the relationship helped me to be better at the things I love.I don't even know what I'd want out of a relationship. I'm a typically clingy person and that puts people off for some reason :\
(02-14-2013, 08:31 PM)Mr Maps Wrote: My friend's ex was like that. She was single for a week before she got with him, and was single for around two after. She always went on about how much she loved him, then cheated on him. Twice. Supposedly got pregnant by one of them, but I suspect that was a ruse to make my friend stay with her.Wow. Just. Wow. This doesn't help my cynicism :p
Some people are messed up.