07-09-2014, 01:29 AM
Idk if I'm just an ass, but I really hate when people try really hard to be "open minded" and "understanding" of others, to where they try to find ways to where I think they're tying to find excuses for why a shitty person is a shitty person. Sometimes it seems like they're trying to make you look like the asshole who's the intolerant one, instead of the asshole you're bitching about.
It's like they don't want to ever admit that some people are just assholes, or just a piece of shit, but they want to defend the person, and basically come up with an excuse that allows that person to be a shitty person. "Oh well your friend isn't a piece of shit for always bumming money off of you and never paying you back, he probably suffers from an abusive childhood and was probably raped by his dad, and, by not giving him money means you're intolerant of domestic violence." < slight exaggeration.
It's like they don't want to ever admit that some people are just assholes, or just a piece of shit, but they want to defend the person, and basically come up with an excuse that allows that person to be a shitty person. "Oh well your friend isn't a piece of shit for always bumming money off of you and never paying you back, he probably suffers from an abusive childhood and was probably raped by his dad, and, by not giving him money means you're intolerant of domestic violence." < slight exaggeration.