03-31-2014, 10:52 PM
(03-31-2014, 09:04 PM)Mr Maps Wrote: I feel you Danjo and you make a good point.Here's an idea: when you get that negative type of thoughts, say to yourself, "NOPE! NOT HAPPENING!" If the way my thoughts work, you'll probably have to say that to yourself several times before your brain "gets it". But it does help me deal with negative thoughts.
We had another spat today because she tried to guilt trip me about a problem that wasn't a problem and took her bad mood on me. I ended up threatening her. I was in a dark place, but it was very very stupid of me. We parted ways for a bit but eventually talked it out a bit. We're going to try and change things to make them easier.
The problem that I now have is that I feel like I'm in a Final Destination movie. As in, I got so convinced we were going to break up because it was so bad, that now I feel like our relationship has sort of "cheated death" so to speak and something much worse will now happen as a result. This is silly paranoia, I know, but I can't shake the sense of foreboding. This is made worse by the fact I didn't really expect things to last this long and so I get paranoid we're running on borrowed time. Again, it's silly, but there nonetheless.
I'll just stick things out for now and keep stress to a minimum
Worth a try for you, right? Worst that can happen is that it doesn't work for you, and you're no worse off than before. hrug: