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RE: 2 pɐǝɹɥʇ ʎʇıunɯɯoɔ - Grungie - 10-09-2013

(10-09-2013, 07:27 PM)BobSacamano Wrote: Yeah but does that actually happen often?
Actually it did happen a lot in high school

(10-09-2013, 07:27 PM)BobSacamano Wrote: I think it'd be different if you said your friend died, because then it's assumed he's young and the loss is unexpected and it "wasn't his time". It's really a sadder story that way, as he probably didn't live what's considered to be a full life.
But don't you find it really silly that they're crying over someone they didn't know existed until a few minutes ago?

(10-09-2013, 07:27 PM)BobSacamano Wrote: They could just be empathetic for you or trying to help in the same way a hug would. I agree crying is likely a bit much but people respond to traumatic things differently.

I don't see how it's traumatic if it's over someone you never knew existed. To me it's like those people who have someone from their school become famous, or go into Miss America and everyone talks about how they were friends with that person, but didn't know who the hell they were until they discovered that person went to school with them.

Regarding that my classmate that died in her sleep, I find it disrespectful to her family and her actual friends (as little as she had) that all these people who hated her and felt disgusted to be around her all lied about how they were the closest friends 5evar, but none of them would give her the time of day. I think it's disrespectful for her loved ones that actually did care about her, because they're pretty much just faking it so they wouldn't look bad. If someone I hated died, I'm not gonna jump on his Facebook memorial and say "bawww we were such close friends!!! RIP"

What would you think if someone from your school that you knew everyone hated died in a car accident and then everyone then acted like they were his best friend?


RE: 2 pɐǝɹɥʇ ʎʇıunɯɯoɔ - BobSacamano - 10-09-2013

Yeah but we're talking about totally different situations I think. Of course it's disrespectful to pretend they were friends and all that. I think I even posted about my frustration towards that a few weeks ago in this thread. I guess I'm just saying I don't see a big moral issue with the basic idea of mourning someone you don't know, especially if it's someone that was important to someone you do know.


RE: 2 pɐǝɹɥʇ ʎʇıunɯɯoɔ - Grungie - 10-09-2013

I just see it as silly to be crying over someone you didn't know existed until a few minutes ago, especially if it was just some random kid in school that even your friends didn't know.


RE: 2 pɐǝɹɥʇ ʎʇıunɯɯoɔ - JCizzle - 10-09-2013

Of course a little empathy is always nice, but like Grungie said, sometimes it's just better to genuinely say "sorry for your loss" to the people that were close to the person in question in that kind of situation.

I dunno, I guess it's a case-by-case thing.


RE: 2 pɐǝɹɥʇ ʎʇıunɯɯoɔ - WCPhils - 10-09-2013

(10-09-2013, 10:14 PM)JoelCarli Wrote: I dunno, I guess it's a case-by-case thing.

pretty much


RE: 2 pɐǝɹɥʇ ʎʇıunɯɯoɔ - wwf - 10-10-2013

i'm going to need you guys to not die on me so i have stuff to talk about when i get back from work in like 13 hours


RE: 2 pɐǝɹɥʇ ʎʇıunɯɯoɔ - crazysam23 - 10-10-2013

Will do. But if I've gone to bed by then, not my fault, man. Tongue


RE: 2 pɐǝɹɥʇ ʎʇıunɯɯoɔ - debbie - 10-10-2013

That would mean that you will get back at 08:30 AM. Which means that I'm already at work then...sowwy.


RE: 2 pɐǝɹɥʇ ʎʇıunɯɯoɔ - Grungie - 10-10-2013

(10-10-2013, 05:36 PM)wwf Wrote: i'm going to need you guys to not die on me so i have stuff to talk about when i get back from work in like 13 hours

Lol, I'll probably be asleep by then


RE: 2 pɐǝɹɥʇ ʎʇıunɯɯoɔ - wwf - 10-11-2013

it has now been 13 hours exactly

WHAT THE FUCK MY COMPUTER SAYS 1:36 THIS IS BULLSHIT