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Well I don't really disagree with anything you or Danjo post and me and brad basically agree on like 99% of things because shit's weird so I wouldn't be going against you or anything :lol:

I just enjoy reading this kind of stuff without the usual UG (and the internet in general) attitude to just ridicule and curse everyone out that they don't agree.
MTB is just a nice place :B

Also, since one of its regular users is a mod, if anyone comes in and is a douche, it's a warn and then a ban :B
(03-30-2013, 05:59 PM)JoelCarli Wrote: [ -> ]
(03-30-2013, 04:04 PM)bbbrad Wrote: [ -> ]I'm not a Christian at all but I think Jesus was dope as hell. I had a long conversation with an old friend who is super Christian the other day and we both agree that Christians don't focus on Jesus enough and instead focus on other stupid things extraneous from the fact that Jesus wanted people to help others directly. She's gone from being a hxc Baptist when I first met her yeeeears ago to kinda sorta becoming one of those "live in poverty and help others" type of Jesus followers and I love it. Our religious conversations are top 5 best things in the world.

Sermon on the Mount is my ish.
haha hxc Baptist. Nicely put.

The whole "help other people" thing is precisely why I find many "sins" to be weird. How is it harmful to society that one doesn't have direct faith in Christ, especially if one has tried (and many people do)? This is one of the reasons I like the Catholic church's stance that says that direct faith in Christ is not fundamental to morality and, ultimately, salvation (but it helps). Mother Theresa famously struggled with her faith to the point that on her deathbed, she no longer was (and this is a legit term) circumcised of the heart. Yet, she was beatified almost immediately.

Wait, are you saying that the Catholic church thinks you can attain salvation without believing in Christ? Because, as a former not very attentive Catholic, I believe you are false in that. Catholics themselves are actually fairly lenient because quite a few don't really give a shit about what the church says honestly, but the church is pretty strict.


Quote:On the other hand, the use of the condom and contraception can lead to less pregnancies and STDs, yet they are outlawed by the Catholic church, with whom I disagree with on this matter. Seems like preventing disease and pregnancies, especially in poor communities, would be, from a moral standpoint, the best course of action for humanity.

I'm not closed to the idea that in the grand(er) scheme of things, maybe the use of contraceptives may be worse than not, but I can't envision how.

They think it's wrong because they think it opens up the doors to allowing premarital sex and other forms of sexual misconduct (which is essentially any sex that is not procreative), which consequently leads to the moral deterioration of society. I pretty much think that's absurd. Most Catholics and Christians in general basically disregard the whole no pre-marital sex thing anyway (also the no contraception thing), so it pretty much amounts to the church telling people to do things and people are just like "nah it's not that bad" so they do it. That's really my major gripe with Christian churches second to the gay marriage issue. The churches make up these extra unimportant things that they find in the Bible and completely forget about the part where Jesus is the most important thing and he chilled with people who were poor and unhealthy and super crazy sinners. Churches spew out condemnations and negativity rather than be like Jesus, which is what the nigga said to do in the first place("be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect").

That's why I am actually incredibly pleased with the new pope. He seems to be very humble and Jesus-like. He even switched out his elevated throne for an even-leveled white chair so he can be equal to his peers. He still holds a lot of conservative views on things like contraception and homosexuality, but he's a step in the right direction. Like he's doing good (or at least looks like it) to change all the dumb corrupt things about the Catholic church.

Quote:Thing is, apparently there is such thing as a "sin against God", but I can't understand how metaphysically, an infinitely impassable (devoid of harm) entity can be sinned against. From what I understand, morality is what affects people if not society as a whole (even things that seem personal, such as suicide, affects society).

It's just because you are disobeying God's law basically. That's what a "sin against God" is. Not that he is harmed by it at all necessarily, just that your actions are contrary to what they say God says.

Quote:Either way, I agree that the most important thing, until you have an epiphany, is that you do what you honestly, deep down, believe is right, and one universal truth is that helping others is a good way to go. I know of great Christians, bad ones, great Muslims, bad ones, great atheists and agnostics, bad ones, and so on. I think the major religions survived through time because (if it doesn't include divine intervention/dharma) they all share some fundamental universal lessons that just "work" (namely the Golden Rule).

My verdict on religion: [Image: thumbsup.jpg]

Yeah. Religion is good for the most part, but corrupted, as are most things in life. Islam I would say is the one that I am not all okay with. Possibly just cuz I am not exposed to the Quran and which parts are considered metaphors and crazy disregarded stuff. I might make a post about my religious/spiritual/worldly views in a bit.

Also, why are you anti-drug?

Yeah, i'm a Buddhist, I am kinda too tired to come up with a long post about it. And people who are super Christian and talk about it make me cringe.
(03-31-2013, 03:50 AM)bbbrad Wrote: [ -> ]Wait, are you saying that the Catholic church thinks you can attain salvation without believing in Christ? Because, as a former not very attentive Catholic, I believe you are false in that. Catholics themselves are actually fairly lenient because quite a few don't really give a shit about what the church says honestly, but the church is pretty strict.
Many protestants believe that direct faith in Christ is NECESSARY for salvation (but not all denominations). Some even believe that it's the only thing required (sola fide).

However, from what I've heard and read, the Catholic church doesn't believe direct faith in Christ ("Christ is my one and only savior") to be necessary, but it helps. Again, at the end of her life, Mother Theresa had lost all direct faith in Christ, in other words, was no longer circumcised of the heart. However, from what I've been told, the church says that there are two forms of faith: faith of the heart, and faith of the will, the latter of which is more important. Theresa had faith of the will (which I believe most people have), which essentially says "I want to know the truth and I try very hard to know it". Despite her struggles in faith her entire life, she still did everything she possibly could to be a good person. Today, she is a Catholic saint.

(I know not everyone agrees with her ideologies and actions, but it's not the person but rather the principle that matters in this context)

As such, I'm fairly certain that the Catholic church mostly cares about you trying to find the "truth" out there and not being intellectually lazy regarding philosophy of the world. It just assumes Christ to be the sole savior of humanity and that through enough reasoning, empiricism and hope you'll follow its path. Allegedly, one public Marian apparition claimed that all religious practice was loved by God and that 30% of people will make it in Purgatory (and eventually Heaven). If I was a Christian, I'm sure I'd be a universalist, however.

Most Christian denominations have what is called 'special salvation', which attempts to justify the existence of people who are unable to grasp Christianity, either because they had never heard of it (unlikely), are mentally incapacitated or infants (more likely), or live on a remote island/in an indigenous, non-contacted community (very likely). Since these people are unable to accept Christ as their savior, they have special salvation, provided that they remain good within their capabilities/community. Otherwise it's unfair.

Finally, the Bible mentions Jesus posthumously traveling to Sheol (land of the dead in Judaism; this is nor Heaven, nor Hell, but a mere resting place for the Jews until the messiah comes along) to redeem the righteous and damn the wicked. Most of these deceased people couldn't possibly have faith in Christ since most of them had died before Christ was even born. This biblically supports special salvation.

(03-31-2013, 03:50 AM)bbbrad Wrote: [ -> ]They think it's wrong because they think it opens up the doors to allowing premarital sex and other forms of sexual misconduct (which is essentially any sex that is not procreative)
That is not necessarily true. Sex that is between two loving (married) adults for the purpose of showing love and creating a chemical and physiological bond is also permitted, but only without the use of contraception.

Personally, I'd only have sex with someone I care about. Only sex that "means" something. I wouldn't do it for myself; I would do it for her, and I'd want the same in return. I know that in Catholicism, you have baptism of water, which is the most common form. However you can be baptized of desire, which is essentially you "wanting" to be baptized. I don't see why this couldn't apply to other sacraments like first communion or marriage, provided you know exactly what they are (however I do realize that the institution of marriage has actual advantages and benefits from a legal viewpoint, applying to religion as well).

(03-31-2013, 03:50 AM)bbbrad Wrote: [ -> ]which consequently leads to the moral deterioration of society. I pretty much think that's absurd. Most Catholics and Christians in general basically disregard the whole no pre-marital sex thing anyway (also the no contraception thing), so it pretty much amounts to the church telling people to do things and people are just like "nah it's not that bad" so they do it.
Yup, you can say that again. Though I can see where they're coming from with the pre-marital sex thing, the contraception ban is absolutely absurd, like you say. Even my dad, who is a hardcore Catholic (also my main source of information along with the internet), believes sexual morality to be way too restrictive and that if the church was more laid-back and easy-going, it would recruit more people.

It is entirely possible to remove many sexual morality laws from the doctrine; doing so would not go against papal infallibility, which doesn't mean the pope is never wrong under any circumstances. We could very well see gay marriage, contraception, ordaining of women and marriage for priests happening in the future because none of them have to do with core dogma.

(03-31-2013, 03:50 AM)bbbrad Wrote: [ -> ]That's really my major gripe with Christian churches second to the gay marriage issue. The churches make up these extra unimportant things that they find in the Bible and completely forget about the part where Jesus is the most important thing and he chilled with people who were poor and unhealthy and super crazy sinners. Churches spew out condemnations and negativity rather than be like Jesus, which is what the nigga said to do in the first place("be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect").
Yup. Though I'm totally okay with gay marriage, I can see where they're coming from. I think it's a little silly considering one cannot change their orientation, but I get the gist of their arguments.

And by the way, the biblical passages that talk about gay relationships, in my interpretation, seem to support them.

Leviticus says "If a man lays with man the way he lays with woman, it is abomination". To me it sounds like you should go with what works for you. If you are born a gay man, you're not going to enjoy laying with a woman and will prefer laying with a man, and the opposite for straight man. Going against your sexual preference goes against nature, and who knows, perhaps science will eventually conclude that gay relationships might bring good to society in a different way that straight ones do. Also, it doesn't mention relationships between two women. That is just my interpretation but there are many different ways to interpret them and quite frankly, I think gay marriage is a minor issue in Christianity.

Check out the concept of Primacy of Conscience. Interest concept.

(03-31-2013, 03:50 AM)bbbrad Wrote: [ -> ]That's why I am actually incredibly pleased with the new pope. He seems to be very humble and Jesus-like. He even switched out his elevated throne for an even-leveled white chair so he can be equal to his peers. He still holds a lot of conservative views on things like contraception and homosexuality, but he's a step in the right direction. Like he's doing good (or at least looks like it) to change all the dumb corrupt things about the Catholic church.
I'm not following much news about the new pope, but I have heard that he seems rather awesome.

(03-31-2013, 03:50 AM)bbbrad Wrote: [ -> ]It's just because you are disobeying God's law basically. That's what a "sin against God" is. Not that he is harmed by it at all necessarily, just that your actions are contrary to what they say God says.
Makes sense, but I still have a hard time buying it. God doesn't invent morality; rather, morality is objective and exists metaphysically on the side of everything else, and God is perfect. God is morality. As such, God is the greatest moral entity that would exist.

Thus, there is a "good" reason as to why something can be a sin against God and cannot be bad just for the sake of being bad. My impression is that it's in reality a sin against yourself. For example, to lust after a woman is seen as sin and the book of Matthew even considers it to be "adultery in the heart", even if the act of lust on its own doesn't superficially hurt anyone. However, obsession can lead to very grave sins such as cheating on your spouse or rape.

In other words, I think a sin against God is a sin that pulls you away from him. Thus it doesn't hurt God, but yourself. But this is just a quick impression I've got and a sin on yourself eventually leads to a sin on the world.

I think I just answered myself. lol

(03-31-2013, 03:50 AM)bbbrad Wrote: [ -> ]Yeah. Religion is good for the most part, but corrupted, as are most things in life. Islam I would say is the one that I am not all okay with. Possibly just cuz I am not exposed to the Quran and which parts are considered metaphors and crazy disregarded stuff. I might make a post about my religious/spiritual/worldly views in a bit.
Yep, but I think the main problem is that people tend to say "religion is bad because Spanish Inquisition/crusades/forced conversion/hate groups/etc", which is an obvious (or should be) fallacy. A religion cannot hurt anyone. Rather, it is individuals that hurt other individuals (guns don't kill people, people with guns kill people, etc). It's more correct to say that an institution is bad, but even that is very wrong. People need to look at every instance rather than the grand scheme of things.

Good people:
Martin Luther King (Christian)
(post-Nation of Islam) Malcolm X (Muslim)
Bill Gates (Atheist)
Che Guevara (Communist, though this one is controversial)
Oskar Schindler (Nazi. Yes, I went there, but it just goes to show that there are exceptions everywhere)

Bad people:
Tomás de Torquemada (Christian)
Osama Bin Laden (Muslim)
Benito Mussolini (Atheist)
Joseph Stalin (Communist)
Adolf Hitler (Nazi)

(03-31-2013, 03:50 AM)bbbrad Wrote: [ -> ]Also, why are you anti-drug?
To see somebody having their mind and body destroyed is depressing as hell. Now imagine when people inflict it on themselves. Drugs are addictive for the most part and almost everybody who has done drugs extensively will tell you never, under any circumstances, to start. Nikki Sixx, previously known as the king of heroin, is actively against drug use today (considering he was clinically dead for five minutes following an overdose), often reminding people that if he could, he would go back in order to never start in the first place.

I don't want people to do drugs. People are better than that and I'd feel extremely depressed if one of my loved ones began. I already think that it's amazing that tobacco is legal. The only reason it is is because it's a very, very large industry and that banning it would have adverse health effects on addicts as well as on the economy. I also don't believe legalizing all drugs will be beneficial to society or get rid of drug cartels (but we should definitely help and stop dehumanizing people who use them).

I also am very much against the notion that drugs make you more creative. If you rely on them to come up with decent art or music, you're not really creative in the first place, and aren't going to be anytime soon. Yes, a lot of very good music was produced by stoners and cokeheads, but that doesn't mean I agree with the method used. Blues exists because of slavery and folk music of the 60's exists because of war. Not to mention black metal.

Drugs also just scare me. I don't understand why anyone would want to start, with the possible exception of starting as a last resort to cope with stress or depression and the likes, not that it justifies drug use. My childhood friend F (shortened for privacy) started doing pot out of curiosity when he was 17, and recently stopped when he realized it caused him panic attacks. He realized he was better without it (and alcohol), especially considering he is on medication for his anxiety.

(03-31-2013, 03:50 AM)bbbrad Wrote: [ -> ]Yeah, i'm a Buddhist, I am kinda too tired to come up with a long post about it. And people who are super Christian and talk about it make me cringe.
I like Buddhism. The more I read about eastern and dharmic religions the more they interest and fascinate me. I also enjoy finding the similarities between religions that are born of different cultures, eras, and geographical locations (such as the Christian Father, Son and Holy Spirit and the Hindu concepts of karma, dharma and rta).
Quote:However, from what I've heard and read, the Catholic church doesn't believe direct faith in Christ ("Christ is my one and only savior") to be necessary, but it helps. Again, at the end of her life, Mother Theresa had lost all direct faith in Christ, in other words, was no longer circumcised of the heart. However, from what I've been told, the church says that there are two forms of faith: faith of the heart, and faith of the will, the latter of which is more important. Theresa had faith of the will (which I believe most people have), which essentially says "I want to know the truth and I try very hard to know it". Despite her struggles in faith her entire life, she still did everything she possibly could to be a good person. Today, she is a Catholic saint.
She is not a saint.

Quote:Good people:
Che Guevara (Communist, though this one is controversial)
wut

Quote:I like Buddhism. The more I read about eastern and dharmic religions the more they interest and fascinate me. I also enjoy finding the similarities between religions that are born of different cultures, eras, and geographical locations (such as the Christian Father, Son and Holy Spirit and the Hindu concepts of karma, dharma and rta).
I was real into Hinduism before I got into Buddhism. I think Christianity and Hinduism are both wrong but whatevs.
1 - I'm fairly certain she was beatified a few years ago.

2 - Che being a good guy is a controversial opinion.

3 - Ironically, Hinduism says that Buddhism and Christianity are both right to an extent and wrong to an extent.
(03-31-2013, 05:52 PM)JoelCarli Wrote: [ -> ]1 - I'm fairly certain she was beatified a few years ago.

2 - Che being a good guy is a controversial opinion.

3 - Ironically, Hinduism says that Buddhism and Christianity are both right to an extent and wrong to an extent.

1. Beatified doesn't mean she's a saint though.

2. He murdered tons of people and was a dick so I would say anybody who thinks Che was a good guy is fooling themself.

3. Hinduism is like a combination of the philosophies of Buddhism with the god stuff of Christianity. So yeah, that makes sense.
(03-31-2013, 05:58 PM)bbbrad Wrote: [ -> ]1. Beatified doesn't mean she's a saint though.

2. He murdered tons of people and was a dick so I would say anybody who thinks Che was a good guy is fooling themself.

3. Hinduism is like a combination of the philosophies of Buddhism with the god stuff of Christianity. So yeah, that makes sense.
1 - Actually you are correct. My mistake. But you get what I mean. Again, principle.

2 - Others believe he is a great revolutionary. It is a controversial opinion and I did hesitate to include him on the list (I have no opinion).

3 - Hinduism is extremely vast Confusedhrug:
Hey Wolfy, I just wanted to say that I kind agree with some of the drug stuff you said.

I really hate when someone says something like "You won't appreciate this album unless your high." If you have to be high to appreciate something that usually means it's not very good imo

Also, I can't stand people who have to smoke or drink to enjoy anything. Like, I drink a little but it's rare and it's only when I'm with friends and family and it's just for fun. You know, to just lighten up and have fun with everyone. I know people who have to do it before everything or they swear they won't be able to have fun. I think that jut means your a boring person and probably an alcoholic. Also my family history is full of alcoholics and I've seen firsthand what it can do. (And what it is doing to one of my aunts right now, though I won't get into that for privacy reasons.) It just upsets me that people don't seem to care how bad it can be for them.

I fully believe that people have to right to do whatever they want to their own body, but doing those things doesn't make you not selfish imo. You can drink your life away but don't pretend that it isn't having a negative affect on the people who love and care for you, because it is. What a person does to themselves isn't just felt by them.

I don't really hang out with anyone who does any drugs. I'm sure a few of my friends smoke weed now and again but I've never been there for it so it must not be that often. So I don't have much of an opinion on that because I'm not really exposed to it. Though I would say much of the same as what I just said about drinking I think. In fact, a lot of it is probably worse when it comes to hard drugs.


We always have these discussions on UG about whether drugs should be legal or not. I don't know where I stand on it. Like you said, it would probably help addicts so they can get help without risking going to jail. The thing that turns me against all the people who are for it on UG is they act like drugs are this great thing and there is no negatives to them. That's just retarded imo. You're allowed to be for them being legalized and still think they are very bad for a person. And then you even have people (I think it was actually craigo) who said he would let his kids do drugs once they are 15-16 if they used them responsibly. I hope he never has kids. What a fucking joke.

I know it sounds ridiculously naive but I really think talking to kids about the danger really helps. I know it did for me. After all the stuff my parents would say to me I never had the urge to touch that shit and still don't. I find this really true about people I knew growing up. Of course there were people drinking and smoking weed, but that not what I'm talking about. Every kid I knew growing up who did hard drugs and stuff had really shitty parents from what I saw. The kind that never knew or cared what their kid was doing. It honestly made me sad. I know teenagers are always all "oh fuck my parents" but I was never that way. I knew how much my parents cared for me and I respected them. Not because they were assholes that screamed at me all the time but because they actually treated and my siblings like people who had a brain and weren't just there to follow orders. Most others I know who had good parents like this were same. And the other kids were the ones doing cocaine and getting pregnant at 16. So yea, I think a lot of it stems from people not actually knowing the danger of what they are doing to there body. We have all of this anti-drug propaganda around schools and on TV, but I don't think that does much. All it does is create this line that kids want to cross. If someone actually would sit down and talk to them about can actually happen in a way that doesn't scream "I'm in charge so listen to me" I think it would help a lot. Unfortunately many parents just don't really give a shit and that's a shame.

Just want to make it clear that I'm not against recreational drinking or a little weed now and again (Though the actual smoking part is entirely different story. I just don't get that. Grosses me the fuck out.)

I don't know, this rant went in about 300584957 different direction but I hope you get the gist of it. Everyone probably thinks I'm a prude now or something but whatevs.
(03-31-2013, 07:11 PM)WCPhils Wrote: [ -> ]Hey Wolfy, I just wanted to say that I kind agree with some of the drug stuff you said.

I really hate when someone says something like "You won't appreciate this album unless your high." If you have to be high to appreciate something that usually means it's not very good imo
It's not that I have an issue with, it's people who rely on drugs to produce art. But I guess you're right. My friend F, an ex-stoner, would listen to non-stoner music when high, however, such as Steve Vai and Porcupine Tree.

(03-31-2013, 07:11 PM)WCPhils Wrote: [ -> ]Also, I can't stand people who have to smoke or drink to enjoy anything. Like, I drink a little but it's rare and it's only when I'm with friends and family and it's just for fun. You know, to just lighten up and have fun with everyone. I know people who have to do it before everything or they swear they won't be able to have fun. I think that jut means your a boring person and probably an alcoholic. Also my family history is full of alcoholics and I've seen firsthand what it can do. (And what it is doing to one of my aunts right now, though I won't get into that for privacy reasons.) It just upsets me that people don't seem to care how bad it can be for them.
Absolutely. This is my main problem with drug use; the health issues. And again, relying on drugs to be social isn't going to make you any less shy in the long-run, if ever you can't drink or something.

(03-31-2013, 07:11 PM)WCPhils Wrote: [ -> ]I fully believe that people have to right to do whatever they want to their own body, but doing those things doesn't make you not selfish imo. You can drink your life away but don't pretend that it isn't having a negative affect on the people who love and care for you, because it is. What a person does to themselves isn't just felt by them.
YES. Absolutely. I 150% agree with you. This problem also arises when it comes to secondhand smoke or family members that become violent when buzzed, because that affects even more the people around them.

Like I said, I'd feel terrible if a loved one got into drugs. I was disappointed in my friend F when he told me he had started doing pot.

(03-31-2013, 07:11 PM)WCPhils Wrote: [ -> ]I don't really hang out with anyone who does any drugs. I'm sure a few of my friends smoke weed now and again but I've never been there for it so it must not be that often. So I don't have much of an opinion on that because I'm not really exposed to it. Though I would say much of the same as what I just said about drinking I think. In fact, a lot of it is probably worse when it comes to hard drugs.
I thankfully haven't met anyone I can say has been into hard drugs (excluding alcohol), but I know they exist and I can't help but be absolutely baffled when I think "someone, somewhere, is smoking crack right now".

A little alcohol is beneficial to your health. A little pot destroys your lungs (might even be worse than tobacco because you keep it inside your lungs longer) and ruins your brain. I really don't understand how anybody can think otherwise, and I've met people who have done pot for a long time, and I can tell. It's also addictive (yes, not as much as heroin, alcohol or tobacco, but that is irrelevant), because no stoner can "stop whenever [he or she] wants". Using F as an example; he couldn't stop the first four or so times he said he wanted to.

I know a few stoners (including Adam) and while most of them are chill (including Adam), when people are high they're either annoying (my friend F), or they just fall asleep (my friend M).

(03-31-2013, 07:11 PM)WCPhils Wrote: [ -> ]We always have these discussions on UG about whether drugs should be legal or not. I don't know where I stand on it. Like you said, it would probably help addicts so they can get help without risking going to jail. The thing that turns me against all the people who are for it on UG is they act like drugs are this great thing and there is no negatives to them. You're allowed to be for them being legalized and still think they are very bad for a person.
Yeah, drug legalization is something I am a lot on the fence about, but I lean a lot more towards prohibition. Legalization won't get rid of cartels because cartels are part of a bigger picture. Mobs don't just rely on drug sales, and often make money with ransoms, sex trafficking, contraband goods such as weapons, fraud, assassinations, bootleg products, and so on. Besides, legalization will only make cartels lower their prices, and legal drugs won't be mixed with foreign substances like illegal ones, often put there for a stronger buzz.

I am, however, like you said, very much for the decriminalization of drug use, provided the user is doing everything he or she can to stop, in order for people to stop dehumanizing addicts and to help them as much as we can.

UGers make me laugh, because if they didn't, I'd be crying.

(03-31-2013, 07:11 PM)WCPhils Wrote: [ -> ]And then you even have people (I think it was actually craigo) who said he would let his kids do drugs once they are 15-16 if they used them responsibly. I hope he never has kids. What a fucking joke.
Yup. Of course. Because drugs can totally be used responsibly.

It's a good thing I don't remember him.

(03-31-2013, 07:11 PM)WCPhils Wrote: [ -> ]I know it sounds ridiculously naive but I really think talking to kids about the danger really helps. I know it did for me. After all the stuff my parents would say to me I never had the urge to touch that shit and still don't. I find this really true about people I knew growing up.
Same here. Maybe not being popular enough to be invited to parties and such saved me, but I always held a "drugs are dangerous and I am never gonna do them" view. I'm not an egg that's made for cracking Tongue

(03-31-2013, 07:11 PM)WCPhils Wrote: [ -> ]Of course there were people drinking and smoking weed, but that not what I'm talking about. Every kid I knew growing up who did hard drugs and stuff had really shitty parents from what I saw. The kind that never knew or cared what their kid was doing. It honestly made me sad. I know teenagers are always all "oh fuck my parents" but I was never that way. I knew how much my parents cared for me and I respected them. Not because they were assholes that screamed at me all the time but because they actually treated and my siblings like people who had a brain and weren't just there to follow orders.
Same here. I never rebelled against my parents and even then I wouldn't do drugs for that.

(03-31-2013, 07:11 PM)WCPhils Wrote: [ -> ]Most others I know who had good parents like this were same. And the other kids were the ones doing cocaine and getting pregnant at 16. So yea, I think a lot of it stems from people not actually knowing the danger of what they are doing to there body. We have all of this anti-drug propaganda around schools and on TV, but I don't think that does much. All it does is create this line that kids want to cross. If someone actually would sit down and talk to them about can actually happen in a way that doesn't scream "I'm in charge so listen to me" I think it would help a lot. Unfortunately many parents just don't really give a shit and that's a shame.
Wait, you guys don't have anti-drug classes at school? We had them in sixth grade. I remember that one of my classmate's mother was part of the group. Still, people ended up smoking and drinking, but thankfully I haven't heard anything about cocaine or other hard drugs. The closest I've heard was ecstasy, which my friend W did once apparently.

(03-31-2013, 07:11 PM)WCPhils Wrote: [ -> ]Just want to make it clear that I'm not against recreational drinking or a little weed now and again (Though the actual smoking part is entirely different story. I just don't get that. Grosses me the fuck out.)
Smoking is pretty gross, especially when it comes to marijuana. F would smoke up, cough and slobber everywhere, it was disgusting.

I have nothing against drinking, provided it's done in moderation. Alcohol is actually healthy for the liver, in moderate doses.

(03-31-2013, 07:11 PM)WCPhils Wrote: [ -> ]I don't know, this rant went in about 300584957 different direction but I hope you get the gist of it. Everyone probably thinks I'm a prude now or something but whatevs.
idgaf. Actually it's nice to know I'm not the only one who has this opinion. We have something to relate to :lol: